Mars rules our drive, vitality, how we go after what we want, and s&x. He is also the impulse for desire itself. God of fire and war, he is always involved when there is chemistry, and our body feels hot. In life he can make us feel lit up or angry and in the bedroom turned on.
Venus, Goddess of love and beauty, she rules all relationships both romantic and platonic — sensual desires, self-esteem and relationship with money and the material world. Venus rules how we receive.
When you align to your Mars sign, you align with your soul expression and embody the energy of what you desire, in other words are more magnetic. When you align to your Venus sign, you align to your hearts desires and so manifest. And if you know your lovers mars sign you’ll know what turns them, and their Venus sign how to make them feel loved.
The research suggests that loneliness is on the rise and far fewer people are getting it on, but 2024 will certainly be a year that will invite us to align with our desires, including in the bedroom. It’s all connected my friends.
In Aries, 1st house
Mars is dominant in Aries, so these people are confident and charismatic. They are also impulsive and passionate. They thrill for the chase and express what they want clearly. You’ll know if they like you. Life and love making is a sport, they have strong drive for both and like sex a little rough and competitive. When coupled they are the ones who like the spontaneous quickies with their partner. Their sensitive body part is the their head. Kinks include hair pulling, ear bitting.
In Taurus, 2nd house
Mars in Taurus is deeply tuned into the material and sensual experience. Venus is at home here. Charming, loyal and flirty, they need to take it slow and feel a romantic connection. They need commitment and comfort in relationships.
Sensual, their body is the map; and touch is their most important sense. They prefer languorous foreplay and lovemaking sessions that will include the right music, lighting and attire. Their kinks include stroking, cuddling, anything with silk scarves. There erogenous zone is the neck so they’re the ones that like hikkys, choking. Hedonistic, food is often part of their love making whether before during or after. And gifts is a love language, they like to receive things that feel luxurious.
In Gemini, 3rd house
Ruled by Mercury these folks are curious, playful and chatty. They can be seen a times a little fickle in love, as they are like butterflies.
Love and intimacy include lots of talking and exploring. Their kinks are pillow talk, dirty talk, sexting, learning about new positions or toys. They make love with their mind, fall in love with those who make them laugh and with whom they can geek out. They are turned on by intelligent people and their voices. Their body part is hands and mouths, so they love to use them and want lovers to do so also.
In Cancer, 4th house
This is a sensitive mars who is ruled by the moon, so their drive and libido wane and grow like the moon, influenced by their emotions. They are intuitively connected to Divine Feminine so acts of care are their love language, and they are very in tune with féminine needs and pleasure. They need to feel emotionally close to their partner and are natural-born givers. They make loyal friends and stay connected to partners forever. Chests are their body part so it’s both their erogenous part and a turn on. They tend to like them big.
In Leo, 5th house
Mars here is bold and expressive, and wants to be adored. They exude passion and confidence. At times may even be a little self focused. But when they love, they give bold and big declarations whether in romance or in friendship. Their love language is acts of affection so they love all the gifts and creative declarations of love. Their kinks - role play, bonus points for the camera, exhibitionism and like the lion roaring or moaning.
In Virgo, 6th house
This is a dedicated Mars. They may have submissive tendencies or be attracted to older partners. Their love language is acts of service so they want to feel special and useful. They may seem guarded and serious, a little prude certainly dicereet, no public displays of affection. But once they love that are committed and in the bedroom like in life, they run on being really dedicated and good at things.
Their kink : throughly being the best lover and communicating their needs clearly. Simply anything that is dirty (including practical like bad smells) or vulgar is a turn off to them.
In Libra, 7th
This Mars is either great at relationships or really challenged by it. They either need to be more selective or less demanding. They’re either a giver or receiver. But when they find they’e match they are the power couple where they can offer and receive support, love and pleasure. They are romantic and love to be in love. Their kink is the bootie. And because the are visual, using a mirror or taking photos during sex can be a major turn-on.
In Scorpio, 8th
This is a powerful Mars, magnetic. Sex is their love language. They are really into it and great at it. Its often experienced as a transformative experience.
When they set their eyes on someone, they’ll want to commit right away and will do so deeply. Love and infatuation only grows over time, getting deeper.
This is a Mars that can get involved in power games, they need to feel that they possess and are possessed by their object of desire so they can be or attract controlling partners. In their relationships and in the bedroom they are either dominating or like to be. Their kinks are foreplay, oral, bdsm, and anything that feels forbidden. Very often lust with Scorpio Mars has a karmic aspect to it.
In Sagittarius, 9th
This Mars does life like an adventure. It needs to be fun and expansive. They are optimistic, idealist and are attracted to things they don’t know.
Intelligence is a turn on, they love to share, soaking up knowledge and experiences in all the ways. Dating people from different cultures is typical for Sag Mars people. Opposites attract here. Their kinks - outdoors, trying new things. These Mars people need to be stimulated or else they can get bored easily; and there is something about the quest being more important than the thing. Their erogenous body part is their hips and thighs.
In Capricorn, 10th
Mars is exalted in Capricorn, means it flows here. These are the ones that are dedicated and serious in all areas of their life. They are therefore loyal and need stability in relationships. They can be picky in partnership but when they find the one, will be someone they see a long term future with and will invest all their energy into. However their desire for stability can have them pouring their energy into work instead of the bedroom.
They may be demanding and so can be dominating in relationship or attracted to dominant or older partners.
They can have a hard time letting loose and being turned on; may not know what does or how to communicate it. But kinks they would enjoy are experimenting with restrictions (e.g. handcuffs or other restraints), power play, and discipline. Their erogenous body part is their knees.
In Aquarius, 11th
The freak c’est chic was written by an Aquarius Mars. Intelligence and originality are important to them. They may seem aloof, they are likely friends with their lovers. They are drawn to quirky and unconventional relationship situations, such as platonic bonds, friends with benefits, polyamorous. They like to keep romance low key.
In their own head a lot or in their fantasy world, talking is important to them and the intellectual connection fuels their sex drive. Logic is their language not emotion.
Because Aquarius rules technology they’re the ones that do the online dating and making out, sliding into your DMs. The kinks are anonymous or group sex, friends with benefits, fetish, and all sorts of toys. Turn them on by holding their ankles.
In Pisces, 12th
This mars is sensitive and very intuitive, their love is boundless.
Dreamy they have vibrant fantasies and visions of fairytale love. For love they will shapeshift. Often attuned to the arts and the spiritual, they connect with the people they love in many dimensions. In fact love is a spiritual thing, soul mate connections is what turns them on. And sex is a way to connect with higher planes and realms. It’s therefore sometimes hard for them to actually connect in this reality, the mundane, actually going on the date.
Pisces Mars people can escape the harsh reality of this world through relationships themselves, and can be addicted to sex or substances.
Their life is influenced by their imagination and romanticism. They are rarely chase after what they want. Let things flow to them instead. Their kinks are foot fetish, tantric practices, sex magic and anything that might be a little illicit. Napping together is also something they love.
